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		<description><![CDATA[Hello and welcome to a very overdue T-Girl Tips I have missed you all so much and look forward to being a little more regular with sending out Julie’s T-Girls Tips.  Well there has been a lot happening since we were last together! I was recently approached by a very successful company who asked me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><p>Hello and welcome to a very overdue T-Girl Tips I have missed you all so much and look forward to being a little more regular with sending out Julie’s T-Girls Tips.  Well there has been a lot happening since we were last together! I was recently approached by a very successful company who asked me to come on board as one of their success/business coaches. The opportunity was too good to pass up.  It has been awesome experience but has taken up a lot of my time.</p>
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<p>This newsletter is jammed packed with news about a sensational style program that many of you girls have already gotten great results from, a great little video on feminine movement and a date claimer for a makeover workshop here on The Gold Coast. Of course we have our regular feature five minutes with.</p>
<p>I am very passionate about contributing to the TG community so I want you to know even if I do wander from time to time that I am always here to support you.  This year has seen some amazing opportunities for me two of which were writing for both Frock Magazine and Transliving I have had several articles published and had great feedback.   Graphics of Frock and Transliving</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1704" title="frustration" src="../wp-content/uploads/frustration.jpg" alt="" width="251" height="250" />As a trained image consultant I see so many genetic women struggle with how they look and what others think of them. They struggle to know what styles suit their body shape the best and how to conceal their problem areas.  I can only imagine how difficult it must be for you to know how to dress to look and feel feminine&#8230;well I actually do know your pain because I have experienced it first hand through my many TG clients.  With all of this in mind would it be ok to share with you a style program that has already helped so many of you.  When I first found this program I was so excited because I know it would help so many thousands of you girls.</p>
<p>Do yourself a huge favour and take the time to look at the program in detail; and if you think it would help you go ahead and invest in yourself. Because I feel so guilty that I have neglected you I want to give you the program at a huge reduction.  The program normally sells for $97 USD but for the next 30 days I am offering it to you for <strong>$79 USD</strong> but you need to put the code <strong>TGTSO</strong> to get your discount.</p>
<p>Here is an overview of what the program can do for you!</p>
<h2><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1701" title="estyle" src="../wp-content/uploads/estyle.jpg" alt="" width="285" height="320" />Your Ultimate Cross-Dressing Style Makeover Program</h2>
<p>You’ve got style!</p>
<p>Regardless of where you are on your feminine journey, each and every woman has her own unique and gorgeous style.  It’s not a matter of age, beauty, wealth, or size – and it’s so much more than just fashion. It’s about having the freedom to explore, discover and celebrate your femininity and unique style consistently and confidently.</p>
<p>Every T-girl needs a BFF to tell her whether or not she can “walk out the front door in that outfit.” That’s where The Femininity Coach and Your Personal Style Solutions fit in. We give you – and women like you all over the world – the most comprehensive information in a confidential, relaxed and engaging web-active format. It’s like having your very own 24/7 image consultant without the exorbitant one-on-one fees!</p>
<p>You’ll learn how to bring focus to your most flattering features, downplay your least favourite, and master the art of “putting it all together.” We’ll cover hot topics like deportment, makeup, shoes, hair and wigs – no fashionable stone is left unturned!</p>
<p>When you invest in your custom-made “My Personal Style Solutions” program, you’ll have more confidence in what you already know works well, be inspired by new ideas, and find the missing pieces of your style puzzle. Knowing what styles to look for, how to coordinate and accessorize and how to shop wisely will save you Frustration, Time, and Money – as well as the Heartache and Insecurity that come from feeling inadequately dressed.</p>
<p>My wish for you is that you look and feel great; that you dress in a way that makes you smile whenever you pass a mirror, and makes others smile when they pass you by. The way you dress will profoundly affect the way you feel, and you deserve to feel abundant joy! With Your Personal Style Solutions, you’ll travel more smoothly along your journey with confidence and high self-esteem.</p>
<p>Ultimately, style is about confidence and feeling good about your authentic self. To understand and express your personal style is to give yourself the gift of freedom. You’ll be able to relax more, feel confident and secure, enjoy your life, and reach boldly for the goals closest to your heart.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><strong>To find out more click on the banner</strong></em></p>
<p><a href="http://stylesecretsonline.com/crossdresser-tfc/" target="_blank"><img class="aligncenter" src="/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/banner-TG.jpg" alt="Style Secret Online - http://stylesecretsonline.com/e-style-sptg" width="700" height="143" /></a></p>
<p>Julie Davis is a Femininity Coach who runs a transformation service for Cross-Dressers and Transgender women. To find out more please <a href="http://www.thefemininitycoach.com#utm_source=feed&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=feed" target="_blank">visit her website</a>.</p>
<h2>How To Walk Like A Woman</h2>
<p>Here is a little video I thought you might enjoy on feminine movement it shows some lovely feminine moves.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/v/z-EO_7ZopMc?autoplay=1" rel="shadowbox[sbpost-1696];player=swf;width=640;height=385;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1727" title="Walk Like A Woman" src="http://www.thefemininitycoach.com/wp-content/uploads/Walk-Like-A-Woman.png" alt="Walk Like A Woman" width="689" height="450" /></a></p>
<h2>T-Girls Makeover workshop, clothes swap and Christmas get together</h2>
<p><a href="http://www.thefemininitycoach.com/wp-content/uploads/TGirls-Christmas-Party-Workshop-2010.jpg#utm_source=feed&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=feed"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1718" title="TGirls Christmas Party &amp; Workshop 2010" src="http://www.thefemininitycoach.com/wp-content/uploads/TGirls-Christmas-Party-Workshop-2010.jpg" alt="" width="690" height="976" /></a></p>
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<h2>Five Minutes With Jennifer Davis</h2>
<h3><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1739" title="Jenny Davis" src="http://www.thefemininitycoach.com/wp-content/uploads/Jenny_Davis.jpg" alt="Jenny Davis" width="250" height="312" />Tell us a bit about you</h3>
<p>I am a 59 y,o, pre-op transsexual, I&#8217;m married to a supportive spouse who will remain with me as my spouse after surgery. We are both very bisexual, but monogamous, we don&#8217;t swing.</p>
<h3>What has been the biggest challenge for you so far?</h3>
<p>Getting the necessary hormone treatments and saving money for electrolysis and surgery. I am also quite large, so hiding the fact that I was once a guy is difficult.</p>
<h3>If you had to start over again, what would you do differently?</h3>
<p>Started sooner and let the chip fall where they may with how life turned out. I would have transitioned at 18/</p>
<h3>Who do you admire and why?</h3>
<p>My dearest friend who helped me accept myself as being transsexual. It takes courage and determination to step out, what tips can you share and what is your motivator?	If you know it, don;t waste time not acting on it like I did. Accept it and be true to yourself.</p>
<h3>What are your 3 biggest success tips?</h3>
<p>Don&#8217;t be afraid to ask for help, you don&#8217;t have all the answers. Seek Medical and psychological assistance as soon as possible. Enjoy life, you only go around once, so make the most of it.</p>
<h3>Fast Fun Facts About You</h3>
<p><strong>Nick Name</strong>: Jenny</p>
<p><strong>Star Sign</strong>: Scorpio</p>
<p><strong>Favourite Book</strong>: She&#8217;s not there</p>
<p><strong>Favourite Movie</strong>: Normal</p>
<p><strong>Best advice you’ve ever received</strong>: Dump my ex-spouse and transition</p>
<p><strong>Best holiday and why</strong>: Normally I would say my birthday, but as for a holiday it has to be Christmas because I can get out and shop for the one&#8217;s I love.</p>
<p><strong>Your long term goal</strong>: Complete electrolysis, have Facial Feminization Surgery, Breast Augmentation and Gender Reassignment Surgery. After that, enjoy life and travel.</p>
<p><strong>What others say about me</strong>: Outside of the transgender community I seems to be well liked because I care about things.</p>
<h3>Anything else we absolutely must know about you:</h3>
<p>My current spouse is 21 years younger than me, but because she has Cerebral Palsy and gets around on a wheelchair, U am her Healthcare Provider. I found old friends still like even after transition.</p>
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<p>I would love to hear your stories and suggestions here on Julie’s T-Girl Tips. Feel free to email me <a href="contact-us#utm_source=feed&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=feed">julie@thefemininitycoach.com<a/></p>
<p>Have a sensational week</p>
<p>Love and Hugs</p>
<p><img class="alignnone" src="/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/julie-signature-300x123.jpg" alt="Julie Davis" width="300" height="123" /></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[We have lots to bring you this weeks starting with part one of our “Body Shape” series. You can look great no matter your challenges. Once you know how to look great, your self esteem and self confidence will soar. You will walk, talk and act differently. This will cause others to respond to you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><p>We have lots to bring you this weeks starting with part one of our “<strong>Body Shape</strong>” series. You can look great no matter your challenges. Once you know how to look great, your self esteem and self confidence will soar. You will walk, talk and act differently. This will cause others to respond to you in new and positive ways.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.thefemininitycoach.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/TGirls-Shopping-Night-2010.jpg#utm_source=feed&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=feed"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1488" title="TGirls Shopping Night 2010" onmouseover="this.src='http://www.thefemininitycoach.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/TGirls-Shopping-Night-2010-650.jpg';" onmouseout="this.src='http://www.thefemininitycoach.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/TGirls-Shopping-Night-2010-150x150.jpg';" src="http://www.thefemininitycoach.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/TGirls-Shopping-Night-2010-150x150.jpg" alt="TGirls Shopping Night 2010" /></a></p>
<h2>Gold Coast T-Girls Night Out</h2>
<p>This Friday we are having a <strong>“Girls shopping night at Who’s Lucy”</strong>. Hover Over the picture to the right all the details.</p>
<p>Please RSVP to Mechelle or Julie on (07) 5520 5533 or email: <a href="/contact-us#utm_source=feed&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=feed">julie@thefemininitycoach.com</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.thefemininitycoach.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Vanessa-Sheridan.jpg#utm_source=feed&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=feed"><img class="size-full wp-image-1512 alignright" style="border: 2px solid black;" title="Vanessa Sheridan" src="http://www.thefemininitycoach.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Vanessa-Sheridan.jpg" alt="Vanessa Sheridan" width="162" height="215" /></a></p>
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<h2>5 Minutes With Vanessa Sheridan</h2>
<p>This week I have the pleasure of introducing you a wonderful role model with in the trans community, Vanessa Sheridan.</p>
<p>Vanessa is an expert business consultant, speaker, trainer, and executive coach. Vanessa’s focus is  to raise awareness within the business community.  She has learned that social change often happens first in the workplace.  Her website is <a href="http://www.vanessasheridan.com" target="_blank">www.vanessasheridan.com</a>.</p>
<p><span style="color: #993399;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Julie</span>:</strong></span> Tell us a bit about you?</p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #993399;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Vanessa</span>:</strong></span> I&#8217;m a U.S.-based transgender business consultant, speaker, corporate trainer, and executive coach. (However, I&#8217;d be delighted to work internationally if there&#8217;s a legitimate opportunity.) I&#8217;m also the author of several books on transgender-related topics and have twice been a finalist for Lambda Literary Awards. My latest book is &#8220;The Complete Guide to Transgender in the Workplace,&#8221; and it&#8217;s the first full-length, hardcover volume on this topic ever to be released by a mainstream publisher. I&#8217;m proud and humbled by that fact. I hope the book helps many, many people.</p>
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<p><span style="color: #993399;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Julie</span>:</strong></span> What has been the biggest challenge for you so far?</p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #993399;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Vanessa</span>:</strong></span> Raising awareness about transgender issues throughout the business community and the larger society. It&#8217;s critical to let the public know that, while our lesbian and gay siblings deserve support and affirmation, transgender people have their own distinct concerns apart from the gay and lesbian communities. We need and deserve equal rights (not special rights) just like every other citizen.</p>
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<p><span style="color: #993399;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Julie</span>:</strong></span> If you had to start over again, what would you do differently?</p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #993399;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Vanessa</span>:</strong></span> I&#8217;d come out earlier and be bolder. But then, I&#8217;ve always been a slow learner and devout coward. <img src='http://www.thefemininitycoach.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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<p><span style="color: #993399;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Julie</span>:</strong></span> Who do you admire and why?</p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #993399;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Vanessa</span>:</strong></span> I admire anyone who is true to themselves and chooses to take pride in being who and what they are. Transgender people have a long, storied history that deserves respect, and I admire those who put themselves on the line for the sake of truth and honesty.</p>
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<p><span style="color: #993399;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Julie</span>:</strong></span> It takes courage and determination to step out, what tips can you share and what is your motivator?</p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #993399;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Vanessa</span>: </strong></span> Be aware, informed, and responsible. You owe it to yourself to know what&#8217;s going on in the world and to work for justice. Always be considerate, kind, and loving. Choose to be positive and optimistic. The world is full of people who will tell you that you can&#8217;t be successful, but you should refuse to listen to them. Be passionate, be involved, and be smart about it. When you fall down, keep getting up. You may or may not reach your goal, but you&#8217;re never going to reach it if you don&#8217;t keep on trying.</p>
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<p><span style="color: #993399;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Julie</span>:</strong></span> What are your 3 biggest success tips?</p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #993399;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Vanessa</span>:</strong></span></p>
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<li>Find your courage and step out. You can do this if you really want to.</li>
<li>Believe in yourself, and never stop. You are worthy.</li>
<li>&#8220;Illegitimi non carborundum.&#8221; (Don&#8217;t let the bastards grind you down.)</li>
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<h3>Fast Fun Facts About Vanessa</h3>
<blockquote><p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Nick Name:</strong></span> I don&#8217;t think I have one. If I do, no one&#8217;s told me about it.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Star sign:</strong></span> Sorry, I don&#8217;t buy into astrology.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Favourite Book:</strong></span> At the risk of sounding self-centered and/or conceited, I&#8217;d have to say my own book, &#8220;The Complete Guide to Transgender in the Workplace.&#8221;</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Favourite Movie:</strong></span> &#8220;Contact,&#8221; with Jodie Foster. It made me think and imagine.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Favourite Saying:</strong></span> &#8220;There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio, than are dreamt of in your philosophy.&#8221; William Shakespeare, &#8220;Hamlet,&#8221; Act 1, scene 5, 159–167</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Best advice you’ve ever received:</strong></span> Question authority.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Best holiday:</strong></span> Easter. Most people say Christmas, and I love that holiday too, but as a Christian I have to say Easter. Without the hope that Easter provides, Christmas becomes rather meaningless.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Your long term goal:</strong></span> To be the recognized world leader in the field of transgender business services.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>What others say about me:</strong></span> While I hope it&#8217;s generally positive, I really have no idea. I&#8217;m too busy doing my work and trying to make a difference to spend much time worrying about what others say about me.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Anything else we absolutely must know about you:</strong></span> I composed and recorded the musical scores for three documentary films that have been distributed worlwide. I sing, write, play several instruments, and love to play rock &#8216;n roll onstage. Upload your photo in</p>
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<p><strong>Note: </strong>If you would like to share 5 minutes about your journey or story you can do it <a href="/resources/5-minutes-with-questionnaire#utm_source=feed&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=feed">here</a>.</p>
<h2>A Bit Of Fun</h2>
<p>This week I received this clip from one of my very talented clients, she sings like an angel and I really wanted to share it with you. Thank you ROZZ for sharing your amazing talents with us.</p>
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<p>Do you know of anyone within the Trans community that we can feature on our website? I am looking to highlight those who are flying the flag for the TG community. Each week I would like to feature one of these special ladies, if you would like to suggest someone please email me <a href="”/contact-us#utm_source=feed&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=feed">Julie@thefemininitycoach.com</a></p>
<p>Have a fun week</p>
<p>Love and Hugs</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 04:11:17 +0000</pubDate>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;">As promised here are the two FREE Gifts I promised you:</h3>
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<h4>1. T-Girls Toolkit Video</h4>
<p>Yes, I know it is the same one as the front page but it has some very good information that you may find useful to watch over and over again, and I am making several more videos on make up and fashion for transgender women, and because you have subscribed now, you will be among the first to receive these.</p>
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<h4>2. Special Report &#8211; &#8220;Make Up Tool Kit For T-Girls&#8221;</h4>
<p>Download your complimentary copy of &#8220;Make Up Tool Kit For T-Girls&#8221; here.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><a href="http://www.theimagedesigner.com/thefemininitycoach.com/wp-content/uploads/inventory/TGirls%20Toolkit.pdf">Download Your Make Up Tool Kit For T-Girls</a></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">It is in .PDF format. This required Adobe Reader, which is free and most computers have it installed. If you don&#8217;t have it you can download it by clicking on this image below:</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 05:21:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
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Cross dressers and transgenders should present themselves to the world by showing others their true selves, not offering the world a mask and disguise. Many are ashamed of their features, their style, their innate sense of womanhood and try to hide behind a mask of makeup, clothing, costumes, and other attributes that shield the world [...]]]></description>
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<p>Cross dressers and transgenders should present themselves to the world by showing others their true selves, not offering the world a mask and disguise. Many are ashamed of their features, their style, their innate sense of womanhood and try to hide behind a mask of makeup, clothing, costumes, and other attributes that shield the world from their true selves.</p>
<p>However, it&#8217;s important to remember that your personal style is your way to communicate so you can<strong>portray your confidence, your integrity and the true essence of who you are.</strong></p>
<p>People are influenced both consciously and unconsciously by <strong>your appearance, your physical attributes, your accessories</strong>. Important also are your speaking patterns and grammar along with your body language.  You never get a second chance to make a first impression, so putting your best foot forward no matter where or what the situation is imperative for your personal style success.  Beauty is within, but your outer impression is a reflection of your personality, your life, your professional goals, and your self esteem.</p>
<p>Polish, poise, posture, all add up to a you making a fabulous presentation of yourself. <strong>Always present yourself in the best possible way</strong>-your personal and professional self must always be your authentic self. So many times we see people who are so put together, but the minute the cameras stop rolling, they turn into a nasty person that no one wants to be around.  Look deep within and find your authentic self and always let her shine through, no matter the situation.</p>
<p>Learn to stand out in the crowd. Select clothes that suggest <strong>POWER</strong> and <strong>CONFEDENCE </strong>and pair them with solid and vibrant colours and accessories that spell success. Build your wardrobe around two or three basic colours and add accents using a blouse, shirt and accessories. Be an inspiration to other t-girls and cross dressers by raising the bar on the way the world views your personal style.</p>
<p>What mask have you hidden behind that are hindering others from seeing your true self? How can you, as a t-girl, revamp your personal style while still staying true to  your authentic self?</p>
<p>I look forward to hearing your thoughts!</p>
<p>Sincerely,</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 23:20:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
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Summer is here! Whether you live in one of the hottest places on earth or a comfortable vacation spot, dressing classy for the summer can be hard&#8230;especially if you are a TGirl!
Before you start redoing your summer wardrobe, your first step is to purge your closet and store everything that can&#8217;t be worn this summer. [...]]]></description>
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Summer is here! Whether you live in one of the hottest places on earth or a comfortable vacation spot, dressing classy for the summer can be hard&#8230;especially if you are a TGirl!</p>
<p>Before you start redoing your summer wardrobe, your first step is to purge your closet and store everything that can&#8217;t be worn this summer. Storing your fall and winter clothes not only keeps your mind from trying to get you to wear something that&#8217;s not season appropriate; but it also increases your closet real-estate which gives you loads of room for your summer shopping.</p>
<p>When shopping for the summer there are a few wardrobe staples that every TGirl should have:</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800080;">A Flattering Bathing Suit.</span></strong> A great fitting flattering one or two piece bathing suit will last a TGirl for years to come.  Because we are developing our wardrobe staples make sure you pick one that&#8217;s black, white or navy so that you&#8217;ll always have a swimsuit that doesn&#8217;t go out of style. Of course, you can build upon that base later.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>A Strapless Convertible Bra.</strong></span> This is a very important staple in a TGirl&#8217;s wardrobe, especially in the summer. Showing your bra straps is a major no, especially when wearing strapless dresses, tank tops and halters.  Invest in a convertible strapless bra that can be rearranged in as many possibilities as your wardrobe.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>A Built In Bra Tank.</strong></span> Sometimes you just can&#8217;t wear a bra under everything. A built in bra tank allows you to feel the summer breeze without sacrificing support or the illusion of support.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>A Ribbed cotton tank</strong></span><strong><span style="color: #800080;">.</span></strong><span style="color: #800080;"> </span>Originally made for men, these shirts are now fashionably acceptable for women and can be incorporated within your wardrobe. You can wear them with jeans and a scarf, a suit jacket, or alone with lots of accessories.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800080;">Cotton Clothing.</span></strong> Whether it’s a light weight top in range of colors and prints or a comfortable printed dress, cotton clothing will keep you fashionable while feeling great in the summer heat.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800080;">A Strapless Dress.</span></strong> A strapless dress in black, navy, white or tan can be incorporated into your wardrobe seamlessly. Try a maxi dress paired with a great blazer or jean jacket with gladiator sandals or a shorter evening style strapless dress for those summer nights.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800080;">Khaki Shorts.</span></strong> Not only do khaki shorts keep you looking cool, but they come in a variety of lengths and look very sophisticated and chic when paired with summer tops.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800080;">Drawstring Pants.</span></strong> You’d be amazed at the combinations you can develop with a few pairs of classy drawstring linen pants. A khaki, white and brown pair are essential for a stylish summer wardrobe.</p>
<p>These are a few of your summer basics to get through the rest of this summer. Many of these pieces can easily translate to fall by using a technique called layering.  Stay tuned to my blog for more TGirl tips!</p>
<p>Sincerely,</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2009 20:05:18 +0000</pubDate>
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Changeling Aspects





This is a wonderful resource site that has a lot of useful and interesting articles and links. Kathy Ann Noble is located in Queensland and has done tireless work in the TG community.
For more information on Kathy please visit five minutes with Kathy on our website. You will also find a recent newspaper article [...]]]></description>
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<h2><a href="http://www.changelingaspects.com" target="_blank">Changeling Aspects</a></h2>
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<p>This is a wonderful resource site that has a lot of useful and interesting articles and links. Kathy Ann Noble is located in Queensland and has done tireless work in the TG community.</p>
<p>For more information on Kathy please visit five minutes with Kathy on our website. You will also find a recent newspaper article written about Kathy on our site.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.changelingaspects.com/" target="_blank">www.changelingaspects.com</a></p>
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<h2><a href="http://www.lynconway.com" target="_blank">A Fresh Perspective</a></h2>
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<td><a href="http://www.lynnconway.com" target="_blank"><img class="aligncenter" title="Lyn Conway" src="http://ai.eecs.umich.edu/people/conway/LynnPhotos/LynnByWindow-2.jpg" alt="http://www.lynnconway.com/" width="150" height="200" /></a></td>
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<p>My goal for this website is to illuminate and normalize the issues of  gender identity and the processes of gender transition. This project  began in the year 2000, as I struggled to &#8220;come out&#8221; about my past to my  research colleagues. I wanted to tell in my own words the story of my  gender transition from male to female three decades earlier, in 1968,  and then of being outed 31 years later in 1999, while living quietly and  successfully in &#8220;stealth mode&#8221;.</p>
<p>Since beginning work on this website, I&#8217;ve come into contact with ever  growing numbers of people concerned with gender issues. I&#8217;ve interacted  via e-mail and in personal meetings with large numbers of people who are  transitioning or who have transitioned. Given the still-remaining social  invisibility, ignorance and superstitions about gender conditions, I&#8217;ve  felt a strong need to provide whatever information, encouragement and  hope that I can to help others who are struggling with these issues.</p>
<p>As a result of my contacts with thousands of TG/TS/IS people over the  past few years, this website has evolved into a major informational and  support site for transgender and transsexual people. The  site now reflects years of field work and empirical research, and  intensive efforts at framing and writing up the resulting observations  regarding this previously almost invisible, highly stigmatized minority  about which many superstitions still prevail.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.lynnconway.com" target="_blank">www.lynnconway.com</a></p>
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<h2><a href="http://www.tsroadmap.com" target="_&quot;blank&quot;">Transsexual Roadmap</a></h2>
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<td>Transsexual transition is simply a journey. Just like a trip, you decide on</p>
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<li>your destination</li>
<li>the time you&#8217;ll need to get there</li>
<li>the money you&#8217;ll spend</li>
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<p>Transsexual Road Map is a travel guide to set priorities and choose your route. It&#8217;s about making informed purchasing decisions and setting realistic, achievable transition goals. First time visitors should start here <a href="http://www.tsroadmap.com" target="_blank">www.tsroadmap.com</a></p>
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<h2><a href="http://www.gendercentre.org.au" target="_blank">The Gender Centre</a></h2>
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<td colspan="2"><a href="http://www.gendercentre.org.au" target="_blank"><img class="aligncenter" title="The Gender Centre" src="http://www.gendercentre.org.au/images/masthead005.jpg" alt="The Gender Centre" width="614" height="30" /></a></td>
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<h2><a href="http://www.seahorsesoc.org" target="_&quot;blank&quot;">Seahorse Society</a></h2>
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<p>This is a non-profit self-help organisation for cross dressers and transgender people in Australia. The name ‘Seahorse’ was chosen as the male seahorse takes on the usual female role of gestating the species’ young.</p>
<p>The Seahorse Club, was founded in 1971 by a group of cross dressers who wish to share their interest with similarly minded people.</p>
<p>Visit this site for contact information of the nearest Seahorse Society to you. <a href="http://www.seahorsesoc.org/" target="_blank">www.seahorsesoc.org</a></p>
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<h2><a href="http://thebreastformstore.com.au/" target="_blank">The Breast Form Store</a></h2>
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<td colspan="2"><a href="http://thebreastformstore.com.au/" target="_blank"><img class="aligncenter" title="The Breast Form Store" src="http://thebreastformstore.com.au/_graphics/MainTitleLogo.jpg" alt="The Breast Form Store" width="621" height="135" /></a></td>
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<p>Contact: David and Tanya <a href="http://www.thebreastformstore.com.au" target="_blank">www.thebreastformstore.com.au</a></p>
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<h2><a href="http://www.brisbanetgirls.com/" target="_blank">Brisbane T-Girls</a></h2>
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<p>The purpose of this site is to connect local <a href="http://www.brisbanetgirls.com" target="_blank">Brisbane TGirls</a> and those who like them, so they can interact in the physical world.</p>
<p>Supportive connections result in a greater sense of community and confidence, empowering transgender girls to have a greater presence in mainstream society. This can occur at all levels from the transgender activist seeking support, to the long time closeted crossdresser wanting to share their interest, to the transsexual wanting to integrate their new persona into society, to those seeking intimate relationships.</p>
<p>If there is something you think should be on this site to facilitate this, but it is not here, please tell us at <a href="http://www.brisbanetgirls.com" target="_blank">Brisbane TGirls</a>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2009 20:04:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
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RACHEL

Hi I’m Rachel, a Tgirl living in Auckland. Recently I arranged a holiday to Surfer’s Paradise. This was to be my first holiday as Rachel and I was looking forward to it. I am not bad with my makeup but I know there is always room for improvement, so with a few weeks to go [...]]]></description>
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<h1>RACHEL</h1>
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<p><em>Hi I’m Rachel, a Tgirl living in Auckland. Recently I arranged a holiday to Surfer’s Paradise. This was to be my first holiday as Rachel and I was looking forward to it. I am not bad with my makeup but I know there is always room for improvement, so with a few weeks to go before my holiday I decided to start looking for a professional to give me a makeover.  Didn’t matter if I only learned one little thing about makeup, and besides that I wanted a little treat while I was there and why not.</em></p>
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<p><em>Where would I start my search, well Google of course?  After a quick search for Makeup Artist’s which didn’t achieve the expected result I came across the Brisbane Tgirl’s web site. Don’t know why I didn’t start there in the first place. I saw a couple of Makeup Artist‘s on their which caught my eye. I emailed 2 of them, the first took a long time to reply but Julie from the Femininity Coach dropped me a line straight away. After a few email’s  Julie gave me her phone number and I called the following day. From chatting with her, I could tell this was someone who cared about people. and I arranged a visit.</em></p>
<p><em>My flight arrived on a Saturday at 8am and I couldn’t get into my room until 4pm. What a waste of a day, well things could be further from the truth.  Julie understanding my situation was quick to find a prefer solution. She arrange to pick me up from the Airport and take me back to her studio for a makeover followed by lunch and then a colour consultation.</em></p>
<p><em>The day started off good and just got better. I took all my makeup and had 6 or 7 foundations with me, and guess what. There wasn’t a single foundation in that lot that was correct for my skin colour. Julie with the aid of various coloured cloths showed me what base colour was needed to complement my skin tone. Once she had the correct foundation shade she applied my foundation. Normally I would plaster it on, but when Julie finished it looked so light and natural. She took time to explain everything she was doing and went over it as many times as I needed her too. On the eyes she used a brown eye liner. I never thought of using a brown before, but she explained that it would look softer and more natural and she was so right. Where she could she used my makeup. That way I could reproduce my makeover during the week myself keeping the costs of what I needed to buy to a minimum. Another problem area for me was applying my lip liner. Not only did Julie explain how to put it on, I now enjoy wearing it and use it every time. I have had a couple of professional makeovers before, but I feel that this time I learned a whole lot more than all the times before put together.</em></p>
<p><em>Once finished there were photographs, and what girl doesn’t like to have her picture taken. After that we broke for lunch, where I had chance to chat to her husband and another Tgirl who had driven Julie to the airport. Julie took the opportunity to catch up on some emails leaving me to enjoy the endless chat with the others. But once finished we return to the studio and continued our consultation.  This time Julie went through various colours that would suit my skin colour. Then she tackled my suitcase, and believe me there was a lot of clothes in that suitcase. She went through which colours/fashions suited me what item went with another. Loads of changes and more pictures. I can tell you it was a fun day. Sadly it came to an end, and Monica (Tgirl) dropped me at my hotel, I was dressed of course.</em></p>
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<p><em>Julie has regular meeting for all of her Tgirl’s and Sunday was no exception. Back to Julie’s for a fun day meeting a number of other Tgirls and GG’s. Watched a makeover on someone else. Which gave me a chance to refresh my memory from the day before? That was, just what was needed for me. Also meeting the other Tgirl’s gave me the chance to make arrangements to meet them during the coming week. This was going to be one good holiday.</em></p>
<p><em>What did I get out of my time at the Femininity Coach, beside a great makeover, new skills, new additions to my makeup kit, an understanding about skin tones, well friends and all you girls out there know how important it is for us Tgirl’s to have friends.</em></p>
<p><em>So if you live near Surfer’s or visiting, then you can’t go wrong with a visit to the Femininity Coach.  A trip of a life time whether you are at the beginning of your journey or part way through. If you can’t make it to the femininity coach drop them an email anyway. You will find support and help there regardless.</em></p>
<p><em>Many thanks to all who helped to make my trip there so memorable, the skills I picked up, the boost it gave to my journey, the fun and most of all the friends.</em></p>
<p style="text-align: right;"><em>- Hugs, Rachel</em></p>
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<h1>ANGELA</h1>
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<p><em> Hi Julie</em></p>
<p><em>I want to thank you for my “Transformation Makeover,” for so many years I have had a dream of feeling like a princess, well today I looked and felt like a princess, thank you for making my dream come true.</em></p>
<p><em>The road for transgenders and cross dressers is not an easy one, I have harboured my secret of living a double life for so many years and I can’t tell you the difference working with you has made to my confidence, thank you.<br />
 Julie, you are so supportive to transgenders and cross dressers and you show that commitment to us girls by teaching us about presentation and makeup. When I go out now people comment how fantastic I look and such a boost to my confidence level (in fact all the girls who have worked with you stand out in the crowd).</em></p>
<p><em>I am so glad that I made the effort to come and see you, even though it was such a big step for me.</em></p>
<p><em>I would highly recommend that other transgenders and cross dressers use your fantastic service as my confidence levels have soared through the roof.</em></p>
<p>Once again Julie, thank you so much.</p>
<p style="text-align: right;"><em>-Love Angela</em></p>
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<h1>MONICA</h1>
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<p><em>Hi Julie,</em></p>
<p><em>I just wanted to express my gratitude for everything you have done for me. I can’t believe how far I have come in such a short space of time…it is amazing! All the other girls that know me are so impressed at the results I have achieved, and to be honest I don’t think I could have ever done this by myself.</em></p>
<p><em>Your help and understanding has been invaluable to me. I look back through my photos over the past three months and see the transformation and it is nothing short of a miracle!</em></p>
<p><em>I am looking forward to working with as I continue my journey to feminization and I would recommend that anyone who wants to look beautiful and feminine to work with you also. I especially love your transformation workshops and our shopping nights; they have given me so much confidence and self esteem.</em></p>
<p style="text-align: right;"><em>-Hugs, Monica</em></p>
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<h1>MICHELLE</h1>
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<p><em>Dear Julie</em></p>
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<p><em>A couple of weeks ago now I emailed Julie for some help and advice, from the word go she has helped me in so many ways imaginable. Julie has been totally amazing.</em></p>
<p><em>I have been dressing for 23 years now and my whole life has been leading up to this moment in time. I myself know that I have come a long way in a matter of a couple of weeks from my makeup, clothes, confidence and even getting rid of those monkeys on my back. A lot of the time I found myself asking questions and all it took was a push and a helping hand to face those questions and find those answers you need so you can push forward into the future and be the girl you want to be.</em></p>
<p><em>Thank you Julie for what you have done for me I don&#8217;t know where I would be without you in my life. It&#8217;s nothing short of a miracle to have found someone like you.</em></p>
<p><em>I am so blessed and happy that I sent you that email and look forward to sharing my journey even further with you and can&#8217;t wait to see what the future entails.</em></p>
<p><em>It is a lonely life as a tgirl but there are ways to overcome it and move forward. I was blessed enough to go to one of Julie&#8217;s girlie days and I tell you, you would not believe how amazing you feel afterwards. Her workshops are packed filled with tips knowledge and understanding, set in a very comfortable environment.</em></p>
<p><em>The way Julie transformed me into such a beautiful woman was out of this world! Meeting other ladies like myself for the first time was a big step but an awesome one.</em></p>
<p><em>I have received some lovely feedback on my new look and style from other ladies and friends and can&#8217;t wait to see what other goals I can achieve and overcome in the future.</em></p>
<p><em>BRING ON THE GOALS!</em></p>
<p style="text-align: right;"><em> *HUGS* Michelle xoxoxox</em></p>
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