Hello! Well, life has been really busy for me over the past month or so because I have been working on a new, exciting project!

For the past couple of years I have been searching for a way to reach out and help as many girls as I can. I am thrilled to say that I have finally found a program that ticks all the boxes! I just partnered with The Australian Image Company to launch an on-line style program, and I’ve been bursting at the seams to tell you about it!

Ladies, This Is a LIFE-CHANGER

I don’t mean to be flippant, but I know that so many of you beautiful girls lack the confidence to walk out the door, and I want you to know you deserve more!

I fell in love with this program, and I am sure you will too. Just for you, my loyal supporters, I am offering you a 10% discount before I officially launch this program. Are you wondering how much it costs? Well, I recently conducted a survey and the feedback was that most would pay up to $250 for a style consultation such as this.

Guess What: It’s Less Than Half Of That!

You will find that this style program will help you build confidence, along with giving you the “know how” you’ve been looking for. And when coupled with the shopping guide, it will give you a new found freedom you’ve only dreamt of! We’ve put together a little video showcasing both my friends and clients so sit back and enjoy!

To claim your 10% discount you need to use the code jtgt001 when ordering your program, this link will only be valid until midnight on the 31^st of May

How to be Confident, Gorgeous and Sexy!

The Ultimate Style Makeover Program – Perfect for the T-Girls and Cross-Dressers

You’ve Got Style!

Regardless of where you are on your feminine journey, each and every woman has her own unique and gorgeous style. It’s not a matter of age, beauty, wealth, or size – and it’s so much more than just fashion. It’s about having the freedom to explore, discover and celebrate your femininity and unique style consistently and confidently.

Every T-girl needs a BFF to tell her whether or not she can “walk out the front door in that outfit.” That’s where The Femininity Coach and Your Personal Style Solutions fit in. We give you – and women like you all over the world – the most comprehensive information in a 
confidential, relaxed and engaging web-active format. It’s like having your very own 24/7 image consultant without the exorbitant one-on-one fees!

You’ll learn how to bring focus to your most flattering features, downplay your least favourite, and master the art of “putting it all together.” We’ll cover hot topics like deportment, makeup, shoes, hair and wigs – no fashionable stone is left unturned!

When you invest in your custom-made “My Personal Style Solutions” program, you’ll have more confidence in what you already know works well, be inspired by new ideas, and find the missing pieces of your style puzzle. Knowing what styles to look for, how to coordinate and accessorize and how to shop wisely will save you Frustration, Time, and Money – as well as the Heartache and Insecurity that come from feeling inadequately dressed.

My wish for you is that you look and feel great; that you dress in a way that makes you smile whenever you pass a mirror, and makes others smile when they pass you by. The way you dress will profoundly affect the way you feel, and you deserve to feel abundant joy! With Your Personal Style Solutions, you’ll travel more smoothly along your journey with confidence and high self-esteem.

Ultimately, style is about confidence and feeling good about your authentic self. To understand and express your personal style is to give yourself the gift of freedom. You’ll be able to relax more, feel confident and secure, enjoy your life, and reach boldly for the goals closest to your heart.

5 Minutes With Miss Tammy

Julie: Tell us a bit about you

Tammy: Cross dresser (now confirmed bi sexual) married man. Loves lingerie. Feel totally feminine in it otherwise still a man.

Julie: What has been the biggest challenge for you so far?

Tammy: Embracing bi sexuality

Julie: If you had to start over again, what would you do differently?

Tammy: Not put so much weight on in my 30′s. Marry a TG instead of a genetic girl

Julie: Who do you admire and why?

Tammy: Trans Veronica. Has natural C breasts and still loves to be active more than passive. So more male than female but is extremely feminine. The perfect woman from what I have seen

Julie: It takes courage and determination to step out, what tips can you share and what is your motivator?

Tammy: I haven’t stepped out.

Julie: What are your 3 biggest success tips?

Tammy:

• See a professional.
• See a professional; and
• See a professional.

You will achieve nothing without them

Fast Fun Facts About Tammy

Nick Name: Haven’t got one yet.

Star sign: Leo

Favourite Book: Bluewater

Favourite Movie: Indecent Proposal

Favourite Saying: Be gentle with me

Best advice you’ve ever received: Never never say die

Best holiday: I have had too many to choose just 1

Your long term goal: Stay married and have gorgeous TG on the side

What others say about me: Too raunchy to repeat here

Anything else we absolutely must know about you: I am too honest. Never ask me a question if your afraid of the answer you may get.

Q)”Do I look fat”
A) Yes (if of course you do)

Note: If you would like to share 5 minutes about your journey or story you can do it here.

SHE

by Cate Lousie Gersch

And share in her triumph over difficulties.
She opens her eyes, the new day dawns -
Her heart filled with joy, gone are the storms.
No longer bars imprison her soul –
Life gently beckons; she answers its call.
Freed from its prison, her Spirit now sings!
She now lives contented, at peace with the world –
No more Fear her master.
Tears of happiness spring from her heart –
Freely they come; she embraces each one
Like a lover’s caress, or the sun’s warmth on her skin.
She eagerly awaits like a child for what every day brings –
As a butterfly drifting on summer’s soft breeze,
She is now free to explore!
Once disheartened and broken,
Now with each step she takes,
Her confidence grows like captains of old
Sailing for lands yet unknown!
She marks out her map –
As the journey unfolds, her heart is the compass;
Her direction, it shows though trials she faces.
She knows she will overcome! She now lives empowered –
No longer in chains.
Will love ever find her?
For she longs to share with another
Her love, her joy, and care…
For there are those
Who will judge her for whom she’s become –
Threatened by her free Spirit
And her courage to endure.
Uncomfortable in her presence, they stay far away;
But as she tastes rejection,
She knows acceptance, too –
Trusting but a few now,
For she knows betrayal comes easily…
But for another with whom to share Life’s journey,
Her life is complete.
Wisdom and knowledge are now what she seeks –
Not things superficial, but waters still and deep.
She hopes with her passing, her life’s not been in vain,
But by her friendship, others might gain.
That they may take delight in knowing her true heart,

Have a sensational week

Love and Hugs

We have lots to bring you this weeks starting with part one of our “Body Shape” series. You can look great no matter your challenges. Once you know how to look great, your self esteem and self confidence will soar. You will walk, talk and act differently. This will cause others to respond to you in new and positive ways.

Gold Coast T-Girls Night Out

This Friday we are having a “Girls shopping night at Who’s Lucy”. Hover Over the picture to the right all the details.

Please RSVP to Mechelle or Julie on (07) 5520 5533 or email: julie@thefemininitycoach.com

5 Minutes With Vanessa Sheridan

This week I have the pleasure of introducing you a wonderful role model with in the trans community, Vanessa Sheridan.

Vanessa is an expert business consultant, speaker, trainer, and executive coach. Vanessa’s focus is to raise awareness within the business community. She has learned that social change often happens first in the workplace.  Her website is www.vanessasheridan.com.

Julie: Tell us a bit about you?

Vanessa: I’m a U.S.-based transgender business consultant, speaker, corporate trainer, and executive coach. (However, I’d be delighted to work internationally if there’s a legitimate opportunity.) I’m also the author of several books on transgender-related topics and have twice been a finalist for Lambda Literary Awards. My latest book is “The Complete Guide to Transgender in the Workplace,” and it’s the first full-length, hardcover volume on this topic ever to be released by a mainstream publisher. I’m proud and humbled by that fact. I hope the book helps many, many people.

Julie: What has been the biggest challenge for you so far?

Vanessa: Raising awareness about transgender issues throughout the business community and the larger society. It’s critical to let the public know that, while our lesbian and gay siblings deserve support and affirmation, transgender people have their own distinct concerns apart from the gay and lesbian communities. We need and deserve equal rights (not special rights) just like every other citizen.

Julie: If you had to start over again, what would you do differently?

Vanessa: I’d come out earlier and be bolder. But then, I’ve always been a slow learner and devout coward.

Julie: Who do you admire and why?

Vanessa: I admire anyone who is true to themselves and chooses to take pride in being who and what they are. Transgender people have a long, storied history that deserves respect, and I admire those who put themselves on the line for the sake of truth and honesty.

Julie: It takes courage and determination to step out, what tips can you share and what is your motivator?

Vanessa: Be aware, informed, and responsible. You owe it to yourself to know what’s going on in the world and to work for justice. Always be considerate, kind, and loving. Choose to be positive and optimistic. The world is full of people who will tell you that you can’t be successful, but you should refuse to listen to them. Be passionate, be involved, and be smart about it. When you fall down, keep getting up. You may or may not reach your goal, but you’re never going to reach it if you don’t keep on trying.

Julie: What are your 3 biggest success tips?

Vanessa:

1. Find your courage and step out. You can do this if you really want to.
2. Believe in yourself, and never stop. You are worthy.
3. “Illegitimi non carborundum.” (Don’t let the bastards grind you down.)

Fast Fun Facts About Vanessa

Nick Name: I don’t think I have one. If I do, no one’s told me about it.

Star sign: Sorry, I don’t buy into astrology.

Favourite Book: At the risk of sounding self-centered and/or conceited, I’d have to say my own book, “The Complete Guide to Transgender in the Workplace.”

Favourite Movie: “Contact,” with Jodie Foster. It made me think and imagine.

Favourite Saying: “There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio, than are dreamt of in your philosophy.” William Shakespeare, “Hamlet,” Act 1, scene 5, 159–167

Best advice you’ve ever received: Question authority.

Best holiday: Easter. Most people say Christmas, and I love that holiday too, but as a Christian I have to say Easter. Without the hope that Easter provides, Christmas becomes rather meaningless.

Your long term goal: To be the recognized world leader in the field of transgender business services.

What others say about me: While I hope it’s generally positive, I really have no idea. I’m too busy doing my work and trying to make a difference to spend much time worrying about what others say about me.

Anything else we absolutely must know about you: I composed and recorded the musical scores for three documentary films that have been distributed worlwide. I sing, write, play several instruments, and love to play rock ‘n roll onstage. Upload your photo in

Note: If you would like to share 5 minutes about your journey or story you can do it here.

A Bit Of Fun

This week I received this clip from one of my very talented clients, she sings like an angel and I really wanted to share it with you. Thank you ROZZ for sharing your amazing talents with us.

Do you know of anyone within the Trans community that we can feature on our website? I am looking to highlight those who are flying the flag for the TG community. Each week I would like to feature one of these special ladies, if you would like to suggest someone please email me Julie@thefemininitycoach.com

Have a fun week

Love and Hugs

Are you ready for the transformation of a lifetime? Do you long to reveal the beautiful, stylish, sensual woman you know you are, but don’t know how? Save yourself from so much unnecessary frustration and heartbreak — do not miss this DVD new release from The Femininity Coach, Julie Davis.

“Discover The Secrets To

Make Up Application”

Learn to tap into your natural feminine energy without struggle, exhaustion and stress!
This is your opportunity to become proficient in your make up application.
Don’t miss it…

Let us walk you through the techniques, step-by-step, that Julie shares in her new T-Girls Transformation program. These simple techniques show you how to maximize your natural beauty in the way you look, feel and act, guaranteeing you dramatic results.

The program has worked for other T-Girls, and it will work for you too. If you’re ready to attract more admiring glances in your life, read on…

All I kept hearing was ‘Julie, I just want to know all this stuff.’ I have been teaching both genetic women and girls in the TG community how to look fabulous for many years, and so I set about putting all that information in to an easy-to-use program. You’ve told me that what you really wanted was a easy-to-follow manual and DVD’s that show you step-by-step makeovers with a user-friendly instructional guide.

For the most part, the world of feminising has never been personalised for T-Girls and Cross Dressers. The frustrating message of my clients seems to be that “you need to spend hours and hours on the internet to sort through hundreds of sites and try to make sense of what everyone was saying.”

I don’t know what you think, but the quality of the information out there is not great; most T-Girls and Cross Dressers are still poorly disguised women. The goal shared by Transgender women and Cross Dressers all over the world is to pass as a natural woman.

What would it mean to you if you could enjoy your femininity, and bring your dreams to fruition WITH EASE AND ENJOYMENT?

Regular Price $97 Today $47

The “T-Girls Transformation Program” is the answer to your frustrations. My program will help you step out with CONFIDENCE and SENSUALITY!

The result was the “T-Girls Transformation” program, which delivers some of the key distinctions that will help T-Girls and Cross Dressers to learn the basic skills that you need to step out with confidence and style.

So what can you expect from investing in the “Transformation Program”? This series will teach you:

How to break free from the trap of perfectionism forever so that you can take risks you never thought you would, and put an end to the insidious self-criticism that we all put up with from time to time. What this means for you is ultimate self-confidence.

The essential beauty and qualities that T-Girls and Cross Dressers have which are different from their male selves. Let me show how you can go from ordinary to extraordinary and amazing.

How to discover the impact that your image is having on your life and your health, and uncover remarkably simple yet effective ways to get the best results, remaining powerful and staying true to your authentic feminine self.

How to embrace the strength of your feminine side without feeling disempowered, diminished or soppy. Discover how, as you embrace your femininity, you become even stronger and even more irresistible to those around you.

Have the X factor and learn how, when applied, you will step into your natural state as an enticing woman of influence.

Wow! You might be thinking, “This sounds like some pretty intense stuff.” Well, there’s no doubt, it is deep. AND, this is the stuff that makes life work! ‘OK,’ I hear you thinking, “What do I actually get?”

Here’s what’s included in this amazing transformational program!

The “T-Girls Transformation” program will allow you to create your own masterpiece with ease so you no longer have to hide behind closed doors.

In this two DVD set, Julie will guide you through the sometimes daunting world of skincare and cosmetics. Learning the fundamentals of skincare is the first step in creating a perfect canvas for a beautiful portrait. Julie will then execute a real life makeover. Follow Julie in a step by step process as she performs a total transformation. The results are nothing short of amazing and yet so simple to do.

You will want to play these DVD’s over and over and keep them in your success library for years to come.

- Valued at $97

Personal Handbook for Transgender Women and Cross Dressers to guide you every step of the way: The T-Girl’s guide to looking fabulous

This handbook contains Hints, tips and guidelines for looking fabulous. Julie shares her knowledge of colour and style with you that will transform the way you dress and will make shopping a breeze. You will find this handbook one of your most valuable resources for many years to come.

- Valued at $27

As a coach and image mentor, working one-on-one with me can costs hundreds of dollars. I wanted to find a way to reach out to Transgender Women and Cross Dressers all over the world. The result is this transformation package, giving you access to my knowledge at a fraction of the price. Just one small investment in the T-Girls Transformation package that will save you hundreds of dollars and hours of frustration.

Regular Price $97 Today $47

Before you decide if this program will work for you, listen to what some of your sisters have said about the Transformation program and the impact that it has had on their lives:

“I understood why certain behaviours were not becoming me”

“I invested in the T-Girls Transformational program because I wanted to change the masculine habits I had adopted while living my other life…My participation helped me understand why certain disempowering behaviours were frustrating me, now I can cultivate more empowering habits by learning how to celebrate my feminine energy…I am truly grateful that I invested in your powerful T-Girl Transformation program. The lessons learned and insights gained have served me well, my life is now more rewarding than ever before!”

- Monica -

“What an amazing resource”

“What an amazing resource for T-Girls… I can’t believe the difference in me since I got the T-Girls Transformation program, it is so affirming, educational and real.

Thank you so much Julie”

-Carol-

If the” T-Girl Transformation program” tools have worked for these T-Girls, think what they can do for you!

Imagine… how good it feels to effortlessly find the time to nurture and be yourself, all the while feeling your self-confidence grow by leaps and bounds.

Imagine… waking up every morning, connected with your passion, and thrilled at the prospect of leaping into the day, expressing that positive energy in the way you present yourself.

Nothing can adequately prepare you when you step out as T-Girl or Cross Dresser for the first time… By following the simple steps and techniques in The Transformation Program you can be sure to step out with style and confidence.

If you are ready to add a brand new dimension to your life, then act now.

I invite you to join me…

**NO-RISK RESERVATION FORM** “Yes Julie, I’m ready to FINALLY learn how to step out with confidence and Style and become the girl I have always dreamed of being!” First, I get My T-Girls Transformational Program: this includes two DVD’s in the Secrets series: “Skincare and Cosmetics Secrets” and “Makeover Secrets”. And I get My Own Handbook: “A T-Girls Guide to Looking Fabulous”. I’m excited about the Bonus! I’ll receive it if I am one of the first 20 to purchase the Transformation Program. I understand that I’m investing in “The T-Girls Transformational Program: Living with Style and Sensuality” NO RISK whatsoever, because it comes with a full money back guarantee! Please give me the T-Girls Transformation Program for $97 (less than half price TODAY $47) and give me immediate access. Includes 2 DVD’s and “A T-Girl ‘s Guide to Looking Fabulous” Regular Price $97 Today $47

We can’t wait for you to join us and become part of the new generation of powerful feminine T-Girls around the planet.

Live with grace, passion and dignity,

Hugs

HOW TO LOOK ABSOLUTELY FABULOUS

• Are you starting over in a new phase of your life (relationship or job)?
• Are you style challenged or have simply let yourself go due to the constant juggling of work and family demands?; or
• Do you simply want to update your look?

Julie Davis – The Image Designer Presents:

‘THE IMAGE TRANSFORMATION’ WORKSHOP

7 Compelling Reasons to attend ‘The Image Transformation’ workshop

Limited To 6 Participants

To assure individual personalised attention, this workshop is limited to a maximum of 6. Morning tea, a light lunch and refreshments are included. For bookings or more information on our upcoming events:

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• phone Julie on 0412 752 366; or
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Welcome to the Femininity Coach site The Femininity Coach. My name is Julie Davis and I’ve been an image consultant for over 25 years. Over that time, I realized a growing need for image consulting focused on transgenders and crossdressers.

After doing research I was amazed at the lack of programs for transgendered and crossdressers as they searched for the path to femininity. My services seemed like the perfect answer to a growing problem; as a result I developed a unique program where a genetic female provides them with all the information and hand holding they need including:

• Confidential, Informative and Topical Website
• Feminization Coaching
• Image, Makeup, and Deportment Workshops
• Shopping Expeditions
• Individualized or Group Experiences

When developing and creating The Femininity Coach, I knew that I wanted to be a resource as well as a safe place for transgenders and crossdressers so that they could get the results they needed in an environment that’s supportive to their change. My program includes:

• A non-sexual site
• Privacy, confidentiality and dignity
• A step by step guide to the process of feminization
• A forum that allows privacy for all members to meet each other
• A place to share the journeys of transgender and cross dresser
• Real time information from experts, including monthly tele-seminars
• Methods of hair removal
• Makeup “know how” and application
• Wigs and hair care
• Deportment (how to move like a genetic female)
• Voice coaching
• Image and etiquette
• Industry expert advice
• Shopping and personalized styling
• Q and A area
• Advice from a supportive, empathetic genetic woman
• Links to resources and information
• And much, much more…

So what are you waiting for? Subscribe to my Style File, follow me on Twitter, become my fan on Facebook, learn more about me, check out real testimonials from actual clients, find out about upcoming events and resources, or just contact me!

Me and my team look forward to providing you with tons of information and a safe place to network! Keep checking back for some amazing tips and tricks and stay tuned for our membership website coming this week, www.femininitysecretsfortransgenders.com.

Sincerely,

The Femininity Coach

Julie: Tell us about Michelle

Michelle: Well I am a straight to the point type of girl who loves to make people laugh. I am also loving and caring and addicted to shopping lol Oops! I love writing songs, graphics, drawing, playing video games, listening to music and cooking, and also like to let my hair down every now and then.

Julie: Michelle, what has been you biggest challenge so far?

Michelle: Good question Julie as there have been so many over the, but I would have to say the latest challenge I had was trying to tell my Nan (Grandma) that I am a cross dresser, My Nan is like my adopted Mother and loves me to death and basically said She would accept me no matter what!

Julie: If you had to start over again, what would you do differently?

Michelle: Oh that’s an easy one hehe . I would have never gone out and got tattoos well not in the spot that I have them on anyway but ¾ sleeves cover that lol.

Julie: Michelle, who do you admire and Why?

Michelle: I actually admire my Dad he is such a trooper the amount of stuff and situation’s he has had to deal with over the years, with his separation with my Mum and losing his own father to cancer he managed to pull through stronger than ever, he is my best friend.

Julie: It takes courage and determination to come out, what tips can you share and what is your motivator?

Michelle: My motivation is the fact I can’t stand being hidden away and not being myself, every year that has passed Michelle has been getting stronger and stronger and needs to burst out just like a new butterfly from it’s cocoon,

The best tip I can give is the old cliché that life is to short; who knows what tomorrow may bring.

Julie: What are your three biggest success tips

Michelle: Well, for me a good moisturiser as my skin gets dry easy I use Nivea soft intensive you can’t go wrong; using black eye shadow and a cotton tip instead of eyeliner and do it before your foundation to blend it in nice.

Fast Fun Facts about Michelle

Nick name: Mas / Mascara

Star sign: Scorpio

Favourite Book: Animalia by Graeme Base, this is a classic from my childhood. The drawings and detail are amazing with hidden twists along the way. I also had the pleasure of meeting him and getting my book signed. He is such a nice man.

Favourite Movie: Hmm… there are so many I have loved over the years, but I always go with the first movie that made me cry, which was E.T. by Steven Spielberg. It’s an oldie but a goodie, but gets me every time.

Favourite saying: I fear being like everyone I hate. I fear failure. I fear losing control. I love balancing between chaos and control with everything I do. I always have a fear of going one way or another, getting lost in something, or losing everything to get lost in. And I fear being a completely acceptable sheep in society.

“I never said to be like me, I say to be like you and make a difference.” – Marilyn Manson

Best advice you ever received: Best advice I had was from a TG friend of mine who said, “Who care’s what people think, go out be free and most of all be yourself!

Best holiday: Oh, I had the most awesome trip overseas, visited a few interesting place’s like London, Rome, Malta, Thailand, Singapore in a matter of 2 weeks. Apart from jet lag it was amazing to experience such diversity in cultures and food. Also living in Malaysia for 2 years was a blowout. I really miss that place.

Long term goal: Is to go all the way.

What others say about me: I get a lot of comments about my body, legs and my style of clothes – all positive feedback to which helps with confidence.

One way to continue on your path to femininity successfully is to dress for your body shape. Dressing for your body shape allows you to look great, feel great, and understand your body. Understanding your body is the best way to dress your best and look your best, especially when shopping. So many t-girls get stuck buying the wrong things when shopping, just because it looks good on the hanger, doesn’t mean it looks good on you!

The first step is to find out exactly what body shape you have. There are four common body shapes, pear, apple, hourglass and rectangle. Many t-girls are rectangles, however because of hormonal therapy; t-girls come in every shape and size, so it’s important to know which category you fit in.

If you are a pear your upper body is smaller than your lower body. When pears gain weight, they gain it in their hips and thighs. Pears look great in fitted tops in lots of patterns and colors paired with solid colored bottoms, to make those hips and legs slimmer. They also look great in a-line and flared skirts. When wearing jeans, dark denim it is best and always accessories your neck and ears to bring attention to the top portion of your body.

Apples have upper bodies that are larger than the lower, and unfortunately, when they gain weight it goes directly to their tummies! When it comes to jeans flat fronts and pockets help you look curvier, and a-line skirts that are short also flatter this shape. As far as tops, keep it simple with less patterns and don’t forget the right bra is the most important part of flattering this shape.

Okay…if you are one of the lucky t-girls that have a curvy hourglass figure, that’s great for you. This means your hips and shoulders are proportioned and you can wear patterns galore. But remember, you look the best in V-necks and stretch denim. Also, because of your small waist, be wary of jeans that gap in the back. And remember, don’t hide your body, baggy clothes are not flattering to your shape.

If you have a rectangle figure, like most t-girls then you have amazing legs. Show them off by wearing low rise jeans. Because your figure is straight up and down, you shouldn’t wear anything with vertical patterns, because you’ll look thinner. Wear scoop neck or v-neck tops to give you a curvier silhouettes. Other than that, have fun with colors and patterns.

What shape are you and what challenges have you had with your figure?