Hello and welcome to a very overdue T-Girl Tips I have missed you all so much and look forward to being a little more regular with sending out Julie’s T-Girls Tips.  Well there has been a lot happening since we were last together! I was recently approached by a very successful company who asked me to come on board as one of their success/business coaches. The opportunity was too good to pass up.  It has been awesome experience but has taken up a lot of my time.

This newsletter is jammed packed with news about a sensational style program that many of you girls have already gotten great results from, a great little video on feminine movement and a date claimer for a makeover workshop here on The Gold Coast. Of course we have our regular feature five minutes with.

I am very passionate about contributing to the TG community so I want you to know even if I do wander from time to time that I am always here to support you.  This year has seen some amazing opportunities for me two of which were writing for both Frock Magazine and Transliving I have had several articles published and had great feedback.   Graphics of Frock and Transliving

As a trained image consultant I see so many genetic women struggle with how they look and what others think of them. They struggle to know what styles suit their body shape the best and how to conceal their problem areas.  I can only imagine how difficult it must be for you to know how to dress to look and feel feminine…well I actually do know your pain because I have experienced it first hand through my many TG clients.  With all of this in mind would it be ok to share with you a style program that has already helped so many of you.  When I first found this program I was so excited because I know it would help so many thousands of you girls.

Do yourself a huge favour and take the time to look at the program in detail; and if you think it would help you go ahead and invest in yourself. Because I feel so guilty that I have neglected you I want to give you the program at a huge reduction.  The program normally sells for $97 USD but for the next 30 days I am offering it to you for $79 USD but you need to put the code TGTSO to get your discount.

Here is an overview of what the program can do for you!

Your Ultimate Cross-Dressing Style Makeover Program

You’ve got style!

Regardless of where you are on your feminine journey, each and every woman has her own unique and gorgeous style.  It’s not a matter of age, beauty, wealth, or size – and it’s so much more than just fashion. It’s about having the freedom to explore, discover and celebrate your femininity and unique style consistently and confidently.

Every T-girl needs a BFF to tell her whether or not she can “walk out the front door in that outfit.” That’s where The Femininity Coach and Your Personal Style Solutions fit in. We give you – and women like you all over the world – the most comprehensive information in a confidential, relaxed and engaging web-active format. It’s like having your very own 24/7 image consultant without the exorbitant one-on-one fees!

You’ll learn how to bring focus to your most flattering features, downplay your least favourite, and master the art of “putting it all together.” We’ll cover hot topics like deportment, makeup, shoes, hair and wigs – no fashionable stone is left unturned!

When you invest in your custom-made “My Personal Style Solutions” program, you’ll have more confidence in what you already know works well, be inspired by new ideas, and find the missing pieces of your style puzzle. Knowing what styles to look for, how to coordinate and accessorize and how to shop wisely will save you Frustration, Time, and Money – as well as the Heartache and Insecurity that come from feeling inadequately dressed.

My wish for you is that you look and feel great; that you dress in a way that makes you smile whenever you pass a mirror, and makes others smile when they pass you by. The way you dress will profoundly affect the way you feel, and you deserve to feel abundant joy! With Your Personal Style Solutions, you’ll travel more smoothly along your journey with confidence and high self-esteem.

Ultimately, style is about confidence and feeling good about your authentic self. To understand and express your personal style is to give yourself the gift of freedom. You’ll be able to relax more, feel confident and secure, enjoy your life, and reach boldly for the goals closest to your heart.

To find out more click on the banner

Julie Davis is a Femininity Coach who runs a transformation service for Cross-Dressers and Transgender women. To find out more please visit her website.

How To Walk Like A Woman

Here is a little video I thought you might enjoy on feminine movement it shows some lovely feminine moves.

T-Girls Makeover workshop, clothes swap and Christmas get together

I would love to hear your stories and suggestions here on Julie’s T-Girl Tips. Feel free to email me julie@thefemininitycoach.com

Have a sensational week

Love and Hugs

Well it has been a busy time since the last T-Girls Tips.

Firstly thank you for all the rave reviews about our new on-line style program. It is a wonderful feeling being able to offer a program that can help so many girls. We all dream that we could have someone to guide us through the process of feminisation and how to be attired appropriately in a “women’s world” often that is not possible because of location, opportunity or cost. Your Personal Style Solution answers all those needs and in a matter of minutes gives you a style program that will show you how to best dress for your body type.

Come And Join Us At “The Style Lounge”

The Femininity Coach is about to launch a support service to all of you girls who have the Personal Style Solutions Program. Over the coming weeks you will be issued with your own password to access a world of knowledge through the soon to be launched Style Secrets On-Line website. As a member you can enter” the style lounge” where you will have access to the latest tips, tools and techniques along with industry experts offering you personalised advice. You can ask your own “Secret Style Agent” any questions you like. To find out more click here.

Good Morning TransAmerica

I recently had the pleasure of meeting Anja Gensel who visited Australia. It has been a pleasure getting to know Anja, she has a very interesting story after living in stealth for many years. Anja heads up a radio show in Alaska called Good Morning TransAmerica. Click on the link below to listen to her interview with Kathleen Cummings for the Gender Centre here in Australia along with her story on Stefanie Imbruglia and her battle and subsequent victory with The Australian Passport Office. Click here to listen to the interviews.

“Define your Style” – Frock Magazine

I am absolutely thrilled and delighted to have an article published in the latest frock magazine; the article titled “Define your Style” is the first in a series that will be published in Frock. If you have not checked out Frock I suggest you do. They also have a sensational offer for subscribers so click here to check it out!

Seahorse Ball

If you missed it last year now is your chance to grab your ticket.

I am often amazed at the beautiful stories and poetry I receive from so many of you girls. This week we are featuring a beautiful poem

MY GUIDING LIGHT

By David P. Krusen

Tonight is the night
The clouds are running through the sky
Like horses guiding
Through the night

Look at the stars
Shimmering like gold
Can’t you see?

Look at the shooting stars
Shooting like cannons one by one

Look at the moon smiling
And shining on the earth
Look at the sky and its dark color
But don’t be afraid
Don’t cry
The light is guiding us
And the clouds will protect us from harm

The air feels like it’s breathing through my body
And the wind is whispering in my ears

The wind will take me up
with the cloud of running horses
I will race and fly through the night
with my guiding light forever

Copyright © 2002 by David P. Krusen

5 Minutes With Miss Anja Gensel

Julie: Tell us a bit about you

Anja: I am a political activist in Anchorage, Alaska, effecting real change through my non-profit TG Advocacy organization called “TransAKtion!. I also produce and host a TG themed talkshow podcast called “Good Morning, TransAmerica!” which .tackles hot-button issues such as transpeople and Christianity, Transitioning in the Workplace, and The impact of transitioning on our partners and families. We travel the world from Australia to Kazakhstan to examine the quality and culture of life for the transpeople who live there. We have world-class guests such as Dr Doug Osterhaut, Dr. Toby Meltzer, and Dr Joel Beck, and many more to come. The show is available from iTunes or our website.

Julie: What has been the biggest challenge for you so far?

Anja: The gatekeeping behaviour of many of the politicians here in Alaska, and a particular televangelist named Jerry Prevo, who likes to use the public’s uninformed fear of transpeople as a weapon to bring down attempts to extend civil rights to GLBT Alaskans. Also, our general lack of civil rights here, across the USA.

Julie: If you had to start over again, what would you do differently?

Anja: Move to Norway or Australia, where I would already have the same civil rights as every other citizen, and not got involved in the seemingly endless uphill battle for even the basics here in the USA!

Julie: Who do you admire and why?

Anja: Phyllis Frye and Roberta Perkins. Phyllis is a gender warrior who takes the fight all the way to the halls of congress. And she has done so since the 1970s, and we are all better for it. She has been my role model since I was a teenager. Through Roberta Perkins’ efforts, the lives of thousands of Australian transpeople have been changed for the better. She founded the New South Wales Gender Centre, and brought the government’s attention to problems that sex workers face. This amazing woman has likely saved thousands of lives! How Amazing is that?!?

Julie: It takes courage and determination to step out, what tips can you share and what is your motivator?

Anja: We are blessed with one life that is tragically short. Far too short to spend it being someone that you are not. And yes, you will lose SOME friends-but you WILL make new ones who love you for who you are!

Julie: What are your 3 biggest success tips?

Anja:

1. Don’t attack or lash out at the uninformed. Educate them, and dazzle them with excellence!
2. Know your political leaders, and exactly what they stand for, Vote and participate actively in your government!
3. Always try to be a positive force in people’s lives. It comes back three-fold!

Fast Fun Facts About Anja

Nick Name: The Sledgehammer

Star sign: Aquarius

Favourite Book: Clan of the Cave Bear series by Jean Auel

Favourite Movie: Aliens

Favourite Saying: That which does not kill us, makes us stronger. Nitsche (My central theme!)

Best advice you’ve ever received: Don’t sweat the little stuff!

Best holiday: My recent trip to Australia. I met so many wonderful and inspiring people there. What a beautiful country and people!

Your long term goal: To have EVERY American to be able to enjoy the rights and freedom that we love to tell the rest of the world and ourselves that we stand for!

What others say about me: It depends on who you ask! To some, I am a relentless pitbull who refuses to hear reason, or a crazy man in a dress who tries to hijack the Alaskan lifestyle.

To some others, I am someone who is diplomatic while remaining strong in my convictions for civil rights, and stands up to bad behaviour in very public ways.

To some I am a role model, to others, a trouble maker.

Anything else we absolutely must know about you: I have been accused of hating America and hating Alaska. To those who claim this, I say Blah, blah, blah! A true patriot stands up and says “This is not right! And a true patriot seeks to keep government working for the people-All of them. We do NOT honour our troops or those who have died for our freedom, by quietly rolling over and taking it, when the government is wrong.

Note: If you would like to share 5 minutes about your journey or story you can do it here.

If you have something you would like published please send it to julie@thefemininitycoach.com

Bad Questions To Ask A Transexual – Calpernia Addams

I am sure many of you have heard of Calperinia Addams, she is a transsexual Hollywood actress. I came across this video she posted and wanted to share it with you. I am sure many of you have been asked some of these questions and if you haven’t you will have the answers up your sleeve!

Check out more of Calpernia Addams visit her website www.calpernia.com
Have a fantastic week

Hello! Well, life has been really busy for me over the past month or so because I have been working on a new, exciting project!

For the past couple of years I have been searching for a way to reach out and help as many girls as I can. I am thrilled to say that I have finally found a program that ticks all the boxes! I just partnered with The Australian Image Company to launch an on-line style program, and I’ve been bursting at the seams to tell you about it!

Ladies, This Is a LIFE-CHANGER

I don’t mean to be flippant, but I know that so many of you beautiful girls lack the confidence to walk out the door, and I want you to know you deserve more!

I fell in love with this program, and I am sure you will too. Just for you, my loyal supporters, I am offering you a 10% discount before I officially launch this program. Are you wondering how much it costs? Well, I recently conducted a survey and the feedback was that most would pay up to $250 for a style consultation such as this.

Guess What: It’s Less Than Half Of That!

You will find that this style program will help you build confidence, along with giving you the “know how” you’ve been looking for. And when coupled with the shopping guide, it will give you a new found freedom you’ve only dreamt of! We’ve put together a little video showcasing both my friends and clients so sit back and enjoy!

To claim your 10% discount you need to use the code jtgt001 when ordering your program, this link will only be valid until midnight on the 31^st of May

How to be Confident, Gorgeous and Sexy!

The Ultimate Style Makeover Program – Perfect for the T-Girls and Cross-Dressers

You’ve Got Style!

Regardless of where you are on your feminine journey, each and every woman has her own unique and gorgeous style. It’s not a matter of age, beauty, wealth, or size – and it’s so much more than just fashion. It’s about having the freedom to explore, discover and celebrate your femininity and unique style consistently and confidently.

Every T-girl needs a BFF to tell her whether or not she can “walk out the front door in that outfit.” That’s where The Femininity Coach and Your Personal Style Solutions fit in. We give you – and women like you all over the world – the most comprehensive information in a 
confidential, relaxed and engaging web-active format. It’s like having your very own 24/7 image consultant without the exorbitant one-on-one fees!

You’ll learn how to bring focus to your most flattering features, downplay your least favourite, and master the art of “putting it all together.” We’ll cover hot topics like deportment, makeup, shoes, hair and wigs – no fashionable stone is left unturned!

When you invest in your custom-made “My Personal Style Solutions” program, you’ll have more confidence in what you already know works well, be inspired by new ideas, and find the missing pieces of your style puzzle. Knowing what styles to look for, how to coordinate and accessorize and how to shop wisely will save you Frustration, Time, and Money – as well as the Heartache and Insecurity that come from feeling inadequately dressed.

My wish for you is that you look and feel great; that you dress in a way that makes you smile whenever you pass a mirror, and makes others smile when they pass you by. The way you dress will profoundly affect the way you feel, and you deserve to feel abundant joy! With Your Personal Style Solutions, you’ll travel more smoothly along your journey with confidence and high self-esteem.

Ultimately, style is about confidence and feeling good about your authentic self. To understand and express your personal style is to give yourself the gift of freedom. You’ll be able to relax more, feel confident and secure, enjoy your life, and reach boldly for the goals closest to your heart.

5 Minutes With Miss Tammy

Julie: Tell us a bit about you

Tammy: Cross dresser (now confirmed bi sexual) married man. Loves lingerie. Feel totally feminine in it otherwise still a man.

Julie: What has been the biggest challenge for you so far?

Tammy: Embracing bi sexuality

Julie: If you had to start over again, what would you do differently?

Tammy: Not put so much weight on in my 30′s. Marry a TG instead of a genetic girl

Julie: Who do you admire and why?

Tammy: Trans Veronica. Has natural C breasts and still loves to be active more than passive. So more male than female but is extremely feminine. The perfect woman from what I have seen

Julie: It takes courage and determination to step out, what tips can you share and what is your motivator?

Tammy: I haven’t stepped out.

Julie: What are your 3 biggest success tips?

Tammy:

• See a professional.
• See a professional; and
• See a professional.

You will achieve nothing without them

Fast Fun Facts About Tammy

Nick Name: Haven’t got one yet.

Star sign: Leo

Favourite Book: Bluewater

Favourite Movie: Indecent Proposal

Favourite Saying: Be gentle with me

Best advice you’ve ever received: Never never say die

Best holiday: I have had too many to choose just 1

Your long term goal: Stay married and have gorgeous TG on the side

What others say about me: Too raunchy to repeat here

Anything else we absolutely must know about you: I am too honest. Never ask me a question if your afraid of the answer you may get.

Q)”Do I look fat”
A) Yes (if of course you do)

Note: If you would like to share 5 minutes about your journey or story you can do it here.

SHE

by Cate Lousie Gersch

And share in her triumph over difficulties.
She opens her eyes, the new day dawns -
Her heart filled with joy, gone are the storms.
No longer bars imprison her soul –
Life gently beckons; she answers its call.
Freed from its prison, her Spirit now sings!
She now lives contented, at peace with the world –
No more Fear her master.
Tears of happiness spring from her heart –
Freely they come; she embraces each one
Like a lover’s caress, or the sun’s warmth on her skin.
She eagerly awaits like a child for what every day brings –
As a butterfly drifting on summer’s soft breeze,
She is now free to explore!
Once disheartened and broken,
Now with each step she takes,
Her confidence grows like captains of old
Sailing for lands yet unknown!
She marks out her map –
As the journey unfolds, her heart is the compass;
Her direction, it shows though trials she faces.
She knows she will overcome! She now lives empowered –
No longer in chains.
Will love ever find her?
For she longs to share with another
Her love, her joy, and care…
For there are those
Who will judge her for whom she’s become –
Threatened by her free Spirit
And her courage to endure.
Uncomfortable in her presence, they stay far away;
But as she tastes rejection,
She knows acceptance, too –
Trusting but a few now,
For she knows betrayal comes easily…
But for another with whom to share Life’s journey,
Her life is complete.
Wisdom and knowledge are now what she seeks –
Not things superficial, but waters still and deep.
She hopes with her passing, her life’s not been in vain,
But by her friendship, others might gain.
That they may take delight in knowing her true heart,

Have a sensational week

Love and Hugs

I hope you have had a sensational week! Mine was a busy but exciting one, I travelled to Melbourne to have a meeting with the Australian Image company about partnering in a very exciting new on-line style program. I am not going to tell you too much about it this week as I am still getting it ready for launch. I will be launching it next week in T-Girls Tips and I know you are going to love it!

New Member On Our Panel Of Experts

I am in final negotiations with a new panel member for the Femininity Coach. I will be introducing her to you over the next couple of weeks but I can tell you that she is a medical doctor and a specialist in hormone therapy. She has agreed to come on board and provide support and information to the subscribers of Julie’s T-Girl Tip’s, she has spent many years working within the TG community.

This week we have part two of “Body Shapes” last week we featured part one of “Body Shapes” Thank you for the emails telling me how much you enjoyed it. Our aim is to provide resources to you that help you on your journey. If there are any topics that you would like to cover here in T-Girl Tip’s please send me an email Julie@thefemininitycoach.com

Dressing For Your Body Shape -Part II

Five minutes with

Thank you to all the girls who have sent in their “five minutes with”.   We have had a few come through without pictures so please make sure you attach a photo. If you would like to participate go to www.thefemininitycoach.com/5-minutes-with-questionnaire and download the questionnaire.

5 Minutes With Miss Stacey

Julie: Tell us a bit about you?

Stacey :I’m a ex military T-girl. I love to dress and have been working on going out.

Julie: What has been the biggest challenge for you so far?

Stacey: Makeup and voice.

Julie: If you had to start over again, what would you do differently?

Stacey: I would have started when I was much younger

Julie: Who do you admire and why?

Stacey: Transsexuals because of their bravery

Julie: It takes courage and determination to step out, what tips can you share and what is your motivator?

Stacey: Don’t worry about what others think, they’re not worried about what you think. My motivator is the fact that I really want to do this.

Julie: What are your 3 biggest success tips?

Stacey:

• Confront your fear
• Dress conservatively
• Act like you belong

Fast Fun Facts About Stacey

Nick Name: Stacey

Your long term goal: To live as Stacey

Anything else we absolutely must know about you: I love to wear skirts!

Note: If you would like to share 5 minutes about your journey or story you can do it here.

Have your say

This week I am really excited to announce the first article in our guest contributor spot. This week we have a poem written by Marissa Jayne Wolfe

“Transgender”

She closes her eyes to hear the baby cry
Some things are too difficult to face.
While she wishes for a child
All she has are dreams to embrace.

Trapped in this cell
praying for daylight to come one day.
No way out of these thoughts
even wishing her feelings away.

For what is a girl to do?
When she faces losing all
If she chooses to follow her heart
And display it on the wall.

Instead of keeping peace
Holding it all inside.
If she keeps this secret
A part of her will have died.

She cries and prays and begs for God
to take her pain away
But God says no and she stays trapped
as a male for another day.

Thank you for your support, see you next week

Love and Hugs

Remember this movie about two outcast dreamers who finally figure out how to stand up for themselves…in thigh-high leather stilettos.

Inspired by a surprising true story, a young Englishman who inherits his father’s failing shoe factory joins a feisty t-girl who turns Charlie’s world, and the entire luckless factory, upside down.

It is worth renting this movie. A real feel good movie with lots of genuine laughs.

Enjoy…Hugs

Watch this video to discover all you ever wanted to know about makeup, application and secrets that women have known for years. Julie reveals some of her insider tips after 28 years in the image business.

Get your copy of the Femininity Transformation Program now that has had some amazing results

We’ll be back on the 4th January and with some exciting announcements and new product launches. Thank you for being part of a wonderful year. Have a very merry Christmas and step out boldly and confidently in the new year.

And a Christmas wish from Kelly Johnson, a T-Girl visiting Sydney from the USA. Wow, isn’t she the most gorgeous and lovely woman?

Shiree Chast with Julie after her makeover she is amazed at her transformation. Her total image makeover covered colour and style, make up, wigs and how to pass as a woman. If you are serious about looking great contact Julie now.